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Erotic Expression

Feel more confident in bed having the exact tools to communicate in bed, to express yourself without holding back and be a sexual woman, without worrying to get judged. 


A self study course for powerful women ready to express their true sexuality.

You have this secret desire to tap into your own eroticism.

We live in a society that doesn't support women to own their beauty. You want to move away from feeling uncomfortable to speak up or express what you want in bed and turn into that sexy, feminine part of yourself who feels empowered, confident and able to express herself fully,

Consider this an invitation to enjoy pleasure on your terms.

There are moments where you feel so sexy and turned on you can’t stop yourself - you can’t keep your hands off your own body.

But on the flip side, there are also moments in the bedroom where you find it hard to express what you want, keep quiet when it doesn't feel so good and find yourself crossing your own boundaries instead of honouring your desires and needs. 

You would love to be this woman who knows what she wants and goes for it.

You would love to be the kind of woman who feels proud to be who she is and confidently states what she desires, in a way it doesn't feel awkward, turns him off, or kills your mood.

Erotic Expression will give you all the tools to feel confident in bed and let your sexuality shine! Raise the bar of your sexual experiences, intimacy and relationship so that you are able to connect more deeply with your sexual self and experience layers of pleasure all tantric women talk about!


What previous clients say:

"As a woman who feels more in my head, I needed practices that really brought me into my body. I went from being a woman who is not that orgasmic and not having access to deeper pleasure to really transforming and feeling very connected to my pleasure and deepened the relationship with myself.”

Elaina Ray, 6-figure business coach, USA

Tell me if this sounds like you...

  • ​You love being intimate with your partner, but find it difficult to relax and let go in bed.

  • You hold yourself back when things don't feel so great, and rather keep quiet instead of honouring your body and your needs.

  • You don't dare to set your boundaries or speak up for what want.

  • You are longing for more presence in the bedroom but your head gets in the way and worry about too many things. 

  • You would love to express more of what you want and desire in bed but you're not sure HOW to do that in a way that doesn't feel awkward or makes him feel like he did something wrong. 

  • You want to get out of the pleaser mode and are looking for a way to create this deep beautiful connection that you are desiring, and you've waited for it long enough.

If you have ever found yourself too afraid to speak up in the bedroom worried you might kill the mood or be judged for your boldness, it's time we have a chat.

Whether you’ve been with your partner for a few months or 20+ years,intimacy and passion are all about communication - but when you shy away from voicing your needs, feel embarrassed about asking for what you want, or worry that your partner will take your direction as criticism, we end up too much in our heads and not enough in our bodies.

It’s not your fault that you feel challenged to express yourself authentically. There are 3 major reasons why powerful women are not given the respect they deserve:


We live in a society that doesn’t support women to openly and honestly express themselves. We’re taught not to be expressive, always keeping this images of “I’m fine.”


Women have received a lot of negativity around being sexual, and this started as early as our teenage period! Unfortunately, slut-shaming wasn't only happening then, it still is and that makes it very challenging to feel as free as you like to be. 


Women have received a lot of negativity around being sexual, and this started as early as our teenage period! Unfortunately, slut-shaming wasn't only happening then, it still is and that makes it very challenging to feel as free as you like to be. 

I get it, love, I have been there too.

This is Lifechanging!

"Arja is an amazing coach and does amazing work. It was life-changing for me to do a training of her."

Joni, Project Manager, Netherlands


This course is your initiation to find your voice in the bedroom.
You will discover your authentic expression so that you feel powerful to say, show and express what you want while dropping into your feminine softness.

Here’s why Erotic Expression is different from anything else out there

There are a lot of courses related to sexual communication, but most of these focus primarily on boundaries and consent, both of which are important topics and important to establish for pleasure, but many times these courses and programs feel more like sexED in High school ;) 

In Erotic Expression, you are going to learn this information in a juicy and fun way that’s also practical and spicy enough to get you in the mood immediately.

Through my strategies, it’s all about playfulness and activating your pleasure zone. I’ve had many students tell me that they have been turned on just from listening to my lessons!

Beyond the words, even beyond the body movement, it's about the energy coming from the feminine side, coming from within.


I am Arja

When people first meet me nowadays, they believe I have always felt confident to express myself, and in touch with my pleasure. But they couldn't be more wrong!

In fact, I used to be so in my head that sex was more of a mental turn on. I rarely felt orgasmic and I thought that feeling sore after sex was normal. 

When I discovered Sexual Tantra, I found out how wrong I was.

I started to be orgasmic, enjoy hours of lovemaking, and learned how to express myself sexually, exactly the way I wanted.

Years later, I have helped hundreds of women to radically transform their sex lives, have the intimate relationships of their dreams, and get in touch with their own sexuality so that they feel powerful and free in their own bodies.

And now it's your turn.


The Six Pillars of Erotic Expression


In this module, you'll be setting your intentions and reclaim your power so that you place the focus fully on yourself and lay the foundations for the rest of the course.

You will look back at what isn't working and receive clarity on your intimate desires and needs. Get ready to move out of pleaser mode and give yourself the permission to put yourself first.

Bonus: be guided to fully drop into yourself with the "awakening the erotic body" meditation 


  • The initiation

  • Intention setting & inner alignment

  • Discover what is in the way

  • A powerful exercise to claim your power


    If you think that stating your boundaries is scary, you haven't taken these classes yet!  This module will turn your view on boundaries upside down and you will discover how setting boundaries can be fun and exciting. Imagine how good it is going to feel to state your boundaries with softness so that you can relax and let go more during sex.

    Get ready to discover how stating your boundaries is your KEY to feeling more pleasure and enjoyment during lovemaking.

    PLUS doing it the feminine way will create more mystery around you as a woman and HIS reaction will amaze you. 


  • The beauty of boundaries

  • How to say no from the heart

  • Find your feminine sweet spot

  • Learn how to speak up