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Erotic Expression

Feel more confident in bed having the exact tools to communicate in bed, to express yourself without holding back and be a sexual woman, without worrying to get judged. 


A self study course for powerful women ready to express their true sexuality.

You have this secret desire to tap into your own eroticism.

We live in a society that doesn't support women to own their beauty. You want to move away from feeling uncomfortable to speak up or express what you want in bed and turn into that sexy, feminine part of yourself who feels empowered, confident and able to express herself fully,

Consider this an invitation to enjoy pleasure on your terms.

There are moments where you feel so sexy and turned on you can’t stop yourself - you can’t keep your hands off your own body.

But on the flip side, there are also moments in the bedroom where you find it hard to express what you want, keep quiet when it doesn't feel so good and find yourself crossing your own boundaries instead of honouring your desires and needs. 

You would love to be this woman who knows what she wants and goes for it.

You would love to be the kind of woman who feels proud to be who she is and confidently states what she desires, in a way it doesn't feel awkward, turns him off, or kills your mood.

Erotic Expression will give you all the tools to feel confident in bed and let your sexuality shine! Raise the bar of your sexual experiences, intimacy and relationship so that you are able to connect more deeply with your sexual self and experience layers of pleasure all tantric women talk about!


What previous clients say:

"As a woman who feels more in my head, I needed practices that really brought me into my body. I went from being a woman who is not that orgasmic and not having access to deeper pleasure to really transforming and feeling very connected to my pleasure and deepened the relationship with myself.”

Elaina Ray, 6-figure business coach, USA

Tell me if this sounds like you...

  • ​You love being intimate with your partner, but find it difficult to relax and let go in bed.

  • You hold yourself back when things don't feel so great, and rather keep quiet instead of honouring your body and your needs.

  • You don't dare to set your boundaries or speak up for what want.

  • You are longing for more presence in the bedroom but your head gets in the way and worry about too many things. 

  • You would love to express more of what you want and desire in bed but you're not sure HOW to do that in a way that doesn't feel awkward or makes him feel like he did something wrong. 

  • You want to get out of the pleaser mode and are looking for a way to create this deep beautiful connection that you are desiring, and you've waited for it long enough.

If you have ever found yourself too afraid to speak up in the bedroom worried you might kill the mood or be judged for your boldness, it's time we have a chat.

Whether you’ve been with your partner for a few months or 20+ years,intimacy and passion are all about communication - but when you shy away from voicing your needs, feel embarrassed about asking for what you want, or worry that your partner will take your direction as criticism, we end up too much in our heads and not enough in our bodies.

It’s not your fault that you feel challenged to express yourself authentically. There are 3 major reasons why powerful women are not given the respect they deserve:


We live in a society that doesn’t support women to openly and honestly express themselves. We’re taught not to be expressive, always keeping this images of “I’m fine.”


Women have received a lot of negativity around being sexual, and this started as early as our teenage period! Unfortunately, slut-shaming wasn't only happening then, it still is and that makes it very challenging to feel as free as you like to be. 


Women have received a lot of negativity around being sexual, and this started as early as our teenage period! Unfortunately, slut-shaming wasn't only happening then, it still is and that makes it very challenging to feel as free as you like to be. 

I get it, love, I have been there too.

This is Lifechanging!

"Arja is an amazing coach and does amazing work. It was life-changing for me to do a training of her."

Joni, Project Manager, Netherlands


This course is your initiation to find your voice in the bedroom.
You will discover your authentic expression so that you feel powerful to say, show and express what you want while dropping into your feminine softness.

Here’s why Erotic Expression is different from anything else out there

There are a lot of courses related to sexual communication, but most of these focus primarily on boundaries and consent, both of which are important topics and important to establish for pleasure, but many times these courses and programs feel more like sexED in High school ;) 

In Erotic Expression, you are going to learn this information in a juicy and fun way that’s also practical and spicy enough to get you in the mood immediately.

Through my strategies, it’s all about playfulness and activating your pleasure zone. I’ve had many students tell me that they have been turned on just from listening to my lessons!

Beyond the words, even beyond the body movement, it's about the energy coming from the feminine side, coming from within.


I am Arja

When people first meet me nowadays, they believe I have always felt confident to express myself, and in touch with my pleasure. But they couldn't be more wrong!

In fact, I used to be so in my head that sex was more of a mental turn on. I rarely felt orgasmic and I thought that feeling sore after sex was normal. 

When I discovered Sexual Tantra, I found out how wrong I was.

I started to be orgasmic, enjoy hours of lovemaking, and learned how to express myself sexually, exactly the way I wanted.

Years later, I have helped hundreds of women to radically transform their sex lives, have the intimate relationships of their dreams, and get in touch with their own sexuality so that they feel powerful and free in their own bodies.

And now it's your turn.


The Six Pillars of Erotic Expression


In this module, you'll be setting your intentions and reclaim your power so that you place the focus fully on yourself and lay the foundations for the rest of the course.

You will look back at what isn't working and receive clarity on your intimate desires and needs. Get ready to move out of pleaser mode and give yourself the permission to put yourself first.

Bonus: be guided to fully drop into yourself with the "awakening the erotic body" meditation 


  • The initiation

  • Intention setting & inner alignment

  • Discover what is in the way

  • A powerful exercise to claim your power


    If you think that stating your boundaries is scary, you haven't taken these classes yet!  This module will turn your view on boundaries upside down and you will discover how setting boundaries can be fun and exciting. Imagine how good it is going to feel to state your boundaries with softness so that you can relax and let go more during sex.

    Get ready to discover how stating your boundaries is your KEY to feeling more pleasure and enjoyment during lovemaking.

    PLUS doing it the feminine way will create more mystery around you as a woman and HIS reaction will amaze you. 


  • The beauty of boundaries

  • How to say no from the heart

  • Find your feminine sweet spot

  • Learn how to speak up

  • 3. Tantric Touch

    Finding it challenging to express yourself is one thing, but knowing what you want is another. 

    Be prepared to get hands-on in this module and discover the 4 elements of tantric touch so that you have the tools to discover what you want and more importantly, how you want it. Ready to put your sexy lingerie on and sensually seduce your partner into the bedroom?

    With the 2 couple exercises included in this part, you won't only deepen your relationship, you'll also discover what he likes so that you have the tools to get out of the regular routine and create new dynamics between you two. 


  • Practice the 4 different types of tantric touch

  • Double partner exercises to drop into your sensuality

  • BONUS: Discover how to be a lady boss in bed

  • 4. Say It Sexy

    We all know that sensual sounds add to the whole experience, but communicating what you like in bed in a way it turns him on is what creates real sexual magic.

    In this module, you get my number #1 - proven to work - communication tools so that you feel confident enough to ask for what you want while also guiding your partner with softness. You will receive my exact bedroom scripts so that you know which words work, and which ones don't.

    With this toolkit in your pocket, you won't ever go wrong - ever again!


  • The beauty of boundaries

  • How to say no from the heart

  • Find your feminine sweet spot

  • Learn how to speak up

  • 5. Body Erotics & Sensuality

    This is where it gets full body sensual, sexy and erotic.

    If you would love to be the next queen of sensuality you are going to love my 3-step method to create full-body awareness during love-making.

    With this new body connection, you will know exactly how to communicate your boundaries, your desires and your needs, without using any words so that you have the tools to slow down, spice up, make it wilder, more romantic, heart-centred or intimate. 

    P.S This 3-step method also helps you to be more orgasmic, double bonus, double the pleasure!


  • The 3 pillars of sensual communication

  • How your lungs serve as a sex organ

  • Erotic body movements 

  • My #1 secret exercise to turn it on!

  • 6. Divine Flow

    In the end, lovemaking is not about following steps, tools and techniques. It's about creating this natural flow where you can melt in full presence, love and intimacy. 

    In this last module, it's all coming together so that you can learn how to relax and go with the flow. To let go and melt into his strong arms. 

    This is where you learn how to integrate all that you learned so sex is going to feel natural to you.

    This is what supports you to effortlessly express yourself in a way that feels so good, you will not remember why you were holding yourself back for so long.


  • How to avoid making mistakes

  • The tantric car and the sexual highway

  • How to be a tantric sex goddess

  • BONUS: Video demonstration with a model

  • We are having
    amazing sex again!

    "The sex with my partner is back to when we just met, I am using all the tools I learned and now we are having sex everyday again!"

    Amanda, Business Consultant, Uk

    Erotic Expression

    Here's how you'll get there:

    6 Mind-Shifting, Modules:
    These Pre-recorded videos walk you through overcoming current challenges and turn into that sexy, feminine, part of yourself that's waiting to be explored.

    Embodiment Exercises: 

    Guided exercises are provided to practice the content in the modules, feel more comfortable and build your self-esteem both in & out of the bedroom.

    Couple Exercises:

    Your (future) partner is going to benefit too. These couple exercises let your relationship go deep. Do these now, or when you meet the right one!

    Testimonials from women who had a transformational journey with Arja

    Increased Confidence

    "I felt lost with the connection with my feminine body and Arja helped me to increase my self-esteem. I got the tools to set my own boundaries and now put them with confidence. I feel more in my body and less in my head so that I feel connected with what I really want as a woman."

    Chantal, Radiologist, Netherlands 

    Changed Everything!

    "I started this training with the deep desire to connect to myself. I have done a lot of personal work but sexuality always seemed to be such a big step and I didn't really feel a desire for sex. This training changed everything! I feel connected to my own sexuality. I feel pleasure in my body, I am able to relax, let go, enjoy sex and the intimate connection with myself."

    Alexandra, Project manager, Germany

    Magic Electricity

    "It transformed my relationship I felt there wasn't enough sex in my relationship and by implementing everything I learned our sex went back to the start of our relationship and became like magic electricity!"

    Amanda, Business consultant, UK

    A New World

    "I have always wanted to try Tantra, but the opportunity never came up. Going to Arja's workshop was like a new world opening for me. Before, I was lonely and had no self esteem... I learned so much in Arja's workshops - how to set my boundaries... People say I have a shine in my eyes now."

    Seriana Oonk, Entrepreneur, NL

    True Transformation

    "I wanted to go deeper into the bedroom with my partner and I didn't know how. The course was truly a transformation for me and I now feel a deeper connection during lovemaking and have heart-centred lovemaking with my partner."

    Lexi, EFT Therapist, Australia

    I'll teach my kids!

    "I wish I had learned all of this earlier. I want to teach my future daughters and sons about sexuality. If I'd have known some of this sooner, things may have been different for me."

    Hannah, Photographer, Netherlands

    Frequently Asked Questions

    I don't have a partner at the moment can I still join the course?

    Yes, you can!


    A big part of this course is all about working on yourself first and only then bringing it into the bedroom. For every exercise I give examples of what to do for singles & women with a partner, so you can do the singles now and save the partner one for later!

    I am already enjoying my sex life, will this course still be of value to me?

    For sure! Before I started with any type of sexual Tantra I also considered my sex-life to be pretty good, and then I discovered a whole new layer of depth to sexuality, and I also discovered a whole other side of my sexuality I didn't even know I had! So yes, there is always more, you can always go deeper, and when you awaken the initiatress inside of you, she will absolutely take you there!

    When does the training start?

    October 2022 all calls happen at 20.30 Bali time on Wednesday. That is morning for the US, afternoon for Europe and evening for Asia/Australia.

    When are the live training sessions?

    All training calls happen at 20.30 Bali time on Wednesday. That is morning for the US, afternoon for Europe and evening for Asia/Australia.

    Are replay's available if I can't join live?

    Yes, they will be online within 24-48H.

    Will I learn more about Tantra in this course?

    Absolutely! I have done extensive tantric training and accumulated pearls of wisdom over the last years that you will learn about in this course. My whole approach and teaching style is based upon the essence of the tantric teachings. You will learn more about Tantra than you can google online!

    I am a man can I do this course?

    This course is for women only, you will get all the juice of it when the initiatress enters your bedroom ;)

    What is your refund policy?

    All purchases are final and non-refundable. 

    Have a question or want to see if this is the right program for you? Send me a message on Instagram and let's chat!